Monday 21 October 2013

MOVING ON.


How often have we heard that word? Its almost fashionable to keep saying it.
I learnt and understood it differently, very recently..

Moving on doesn't just mean getting over your old boyfriend and finding a new one. It means getting your feet to move even when they are so deeply sunk in, and taking that first step out of the situation your in.
It just means moving forward, stepping out of the old.


Moving on can be good in more ways than one.. It could be something as small as not letting a bad exam ruin your day. Or making an effort to smile even if everything seems like its falling apart..





The society we live in today, is so fast paced. I sometimes wish i lived a decade ago.. Life was more laid back, back then!
You are expected to be fast or you're just left alone, to collect the pieces of your broken life.

I personally feel moving on is not something that comes to you. Its not a genie in a bottle. Its an effort. It takes grit and strength for someone to move on.
The moment you take the first step you'll see the change. You'll see that life still goes on and you'll begin to notice the big picture.


This is to all my friends, who've been stuck there wayy tooo long. I think its time to take that first tiny step, and give life another chance and "move on"! :)

Saturday 12 October 2013

ACCOUNTABILITY


I have often wondered about this word. Is it a phase? A way of living? When i finally get what it means, its beyond beautiful. I have met people who proudly say how unaccountable they are.. i find that very lame! As humans we need accountability.. As a christian i believe i am first and before anything, accountable to my God. But as a teenage girl im accountable to many people around too. 

Accountability doesn't mean being ruled over or controlled by someone. Wiki puts it this way " accountability is answerability, blameworthinessliability, and the expectation of account-giving."


Account giving! I enjoy that!  I love telling people  about the things i did, and by account giving it doesn't have to be about just the wrong you did, or the things that make you guilty. It could be something like buying a new dress, or running out of petrol on the way to something important, or just watching your favourite show! Its just talking about everything you do to someone who cares. Its like therapy! I feel a million times better when i have a bad day and can talk about it! Its like hot bajjis on a rainy day, ice cream on a hot afternoon, a foot massage after a long day, like a.. well you get the idea, don't you!

I have someone whom im accountable to, and its one of the best things in my life! So who are you accountable to, today? It could be a brother, a sister, a friend, a parent, a colleague.. anyone who cares :)


Find your accountability partner and see where it goes!  :)

Monday 7 October 2013

FINALLY HERE :D

I dunno where to start. Starting a blog has been on my mind for almost a year now.. but i have been postponing it for as long as i remember! So what FINALLY brings me here you ask? A friend :)
This is someone who knows me in and out.. soooo today when the blogging came up in the conversation again.. i was told "Do it woman! :)".. Soo my brain kicked in and went why not? And i logged in and made a profile and here i am typing away..

I chose to anonymous because i intend to be brutally honest about everything and everyone around.
If your reading this, drop a comment, and tell me what you think!

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